Living positively with HIV and long-term care
What to expect when living with HIV and how to maintain health and wellbeing.
People living with HIV (PLWH) today have access to treatments that suppress the virus and allow for normal lifespans. With consistent use of antiretroviral therapy, people with HIV can have undetectable viral loads, meaning the virus is so suppressed that it does not appear on standard blood tests and cannot be transmitted sexually. This has transformed HIV from a life-limiting diagnosis to a chronic manageable condition. Staying healthy with HIV involves taking medications as prescribed, maintaining regular medical care with an HIV specialist or informed primary care provider, and managing other aspects of health like nutrition, stress, sleep, and exercise. Adherence to medication is important because missing doses can allow the virus to develop resistance to current medications. Many people find it helpful to use pill reminders, calendar marks, or medication management apps to stay on track. Relationships and disclosure are personal decisions. You are not required to disclose your HIV status to everyone, including on dates or during casual relationships. However, if a relationship becomes sexual, you may want to share your status, discuss testing and prevention, and make informed decisions together. Many people with HIV have healthy sexual relationships and families. U equals U means you cannot transmit HIV if you are on effective treatment. Mental health is as important as physical health for people living with HIV. Many people experience anxiety, depression, grief, or isolation due to their diagnosis. Therapy, support groups, peer mentors, and community organizations can help. Taking care of your mental wellbeing supports treatment adherence and overall health. Connecting with other people living with HIV can reduce isolation and provide practical support and understanding.
Related
What to do if there is a potential exposure to HIV or other STIs.
Safer sex beyond heteronormative frameworksPractical principles for safer choices without assuming one type of relationship or body.
STIs, signs, testing, and treatmentCommon STI signs and why testing matters, even when you feel fine.
HIV basics explained for queer womenA stigma-free introduction to HIV, testing, and prevention options.